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What You Do When Safeway Isn't Down the Street?

Me Ra Koh

Since Safeway isn’t down the street, and we are in a somewhat remote area, we’ve got three options for eating;

1. We can eat out! But as we all know, that gets old after awhile–even when it’s only $2 a plate. ๐Ÿ™‚

2. We can have a local woman go to the open market for us in the early morning and buy our food. But then I wondered if we could do it ourselves and save a few dollars from paying someone to do it for us. This brings me to Option 3…

3. We could do it ourselves (thinking we’d save some money).

Why not try, right? The four of us packed ourselves into a longtail boat and headed to the mainland.

Krabi’s open market is the largest in Southern Thailand. There are a couple routes to get there. We decided it would be fun if they kids experienced a public bus ride. After the longtail, we started the LONG bus ride! We had no idea how many stops the driver would make, and that 20 minute distance would end up being a hour long! ๐Ÿ™‚

But once we made it to the market, it was an awesome experience for the us and the kids. Instead of going to a grocery store, where every thing is in one place, they experienced finding the fruit section,

the curry section, the chicken section,

the insect and seafood (the kids got a kick out of how the Thai people tie the crabs legs together so they can’t crawl away.),

and when Brian asked them where to find the milk…well, let’s just say we never found that section since Thai people don’t do dairy.

Pascaline found the pastry section and wanted me to get her a treat. I don’t know if I was a bad mom in the moment, but I told her that if she asked the lady how much the treat was, asked if she could have it for less, and then found a price to agree on, she could have the treat. Oooh, Pascaline did NOT like me. She said she didn’t want any thing and walked off. But a few minutes later she said she’d like to try. I was so proud of her because the simple act of getting the woman’s attention was hard for Pascaline. She had to speak up and not be shy. Then Pascaline had to repeat herself a couple times until the lady understood what she was trying to ask. The price seemed fair to Pascaline so she found the exact Thai Baht and made her first purchase. Fireworks didn’t go off, and she didn’t tell me I was an awesome mom for making her do all that, but these are the life experiences I feel convicted to teach the kids.

In the end, we decided to take a Tuk-Tuk back to the pier instead of the public bus. Tuk-Tuk’s are named that because they make a sound that goes “tuk-tuk-tuk-tuk” as they putter around town.

But beware, the drivers tend to live life a little on the wild side. Anyone who has ever been in a Tuk-Tuk has some near-death experience to share. No seatbelts, no doors, all open air. Am I right, fellow Tuk-Tuk riders? ๐Ÿ™‚

The kids got a good feel for how completely terrifying and exciting a Tuk-Tuk ride can be.

They were totally relieved to be back to the pier! Brian and I can’t help but laugh when we look at these images of the kids! They don’t hide a single feeling, do they?

Conclusion…

By the time you add up the cost of all four of us traveling to the open market, it’s almost the same price to hire a local woman to do it for us. It takes a local woman 1 hour or less to do all our shopping, and it took us over three hours to find our way to the milk that we never found. And last but not least, when you buy eggs here they put the eggs in a plastic bag.

Did you hear me? A PLASTIC BAG!!

Somehow, Ms. Dame-the sweet woman who buys our groceries, is able to bring all our groceries to us, by bus, then by longtail boat, without breaking a SINGLE egg. Is this possible! Am I missing something? Okay, let’s be real! I break eggs when they are in a cardboard carton as I roll my grocery cart to my car! Are Thai eggs more durable? They must be, right!

I got my eggs at the open market, and when we got home I found that Thai eggs are not more durable.

We also learned the hard way that our chicken wouldn’t keep for more than a day. Ms. Dame taught us this when she came to make our dinner. The monkeys got into our rice, cereal, and ate all our bananas. The eggs…well, you can see what happened to the eggs. The bok choy is one of the only things that made it to the point of consumption.

Yep, you guessed it. Ms. Dame now does ALL our grocery shopping. And we are more thankful for her than EVER!

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  1. Jessica N says:

    I am so enjoying your Thailand adventures!

  2. andy says:

    I actually remember the Krabi market. Doesn’t seem like 6 years ago! :). Hope you ate the eggs that night!

  3. jeramy says:

    i don’t think you’re a bad mom. i encourage my kids to do that kind of thing all the time. i think it’s good for them too…enjoy the eggs! ๐Ÿ™‚ good story.

  4. Sharon says:

    I can’t wait till the kids get home to read this to them! They are going to love it!
    Fun story and great pictures!

  5. denise karis says:

    awwww I love the story of pascaline! That IS a hard thing to do!

  6. Linda says:

    Your kids looks of a sort of happy terror on the tuk tuk was great!

  7. Amanda says:

    Oh my gosh Me Ra, that story about Pascaline at the market really touched my heart. You know, she may not have thought “gee, my Mom is cool” or even “thanks Mom” at that moment, but I bet she did end up having a feeling of accomplishment at doing something that initially was outside of her comfort zone. Those seemingly small things are so important and you are very awesome Mom for knowing your daughter and pushing her in a loving way to reach beyond herself that little bit. =)

  8. beck says:

    What a FUN post. I LOVE the picture of the kids in the tuk tuk, and I, too, respect the lesson for Pascaline. I wish I’d been pushed to move outside my shy little comfort zone when I was younger… it opens up whole new WOLRDS! (Did you have any idea so many people would relate to that little story?)

    Fun, fun fun.

  9. Jen MacNiven says:

    TUK TUKs can be a life defying experience! No doubt!
    So fun though to go to the market…even if you only do it once ;). I was so impressed with the food in SE Asia, that when I returned home from my trip, I decided to cook a BIG meal for all my friends. So, to get the food, I went to the Asian market in Seattle…and I was the only white girl. It was hilarious and I felt the same way I did in Asia…a little lost, but it was an amazing site and experience. AND, the food there is MUCH cheaper too!
    I’m glad you all had such a fun time though…something you will always remember!

  10. Genie says:

    three words…mangosteens and grilled squid – yum! my faves from the krabi market. Tuk tuks in Bangkok are even more death defying so watch out there! Wow, how fun! Ms Dame ROCKS!

  11. Gretchen says:

    OH my the adventures Blaze and Pascaline are enjoying. I LOVE their expressions in the Tuk tuk ride! Priceless- I can just hear you and Brian giggling away at the photos.

  12. Addie says:

    The expressions on Pasqualine’s and Blaze’s faces pays a BIG tribute to just what type of parents you both are!….these are two extremely healthy and happy kids who are getting to live life to the fullest, courtesy their Mom and Dad. How cool is that?!!!

  13. Kate says:

    What a fun adventure! I think it’s great for the kids to have the experience of seeing a market like that and that not everyone in the world has SuperMarts on every corner.

    Very cool.

  14. Amanda Key says:

    Me Ra, I am so happy that you taught Pascaline such a valuable lesson. I was just telling my husband the other night, “they just do not make kids the way they used to.” ๐Ÿ™‚ (I teach high school students)– anyways–I am thrilled that you raise your children to be independent. Thank you for being a great mom. The world needs more moms like you!

  15. Julie Watts says:

    The Tuk Tuk pics of the kids are hilarious!!!!

    What do you have in terms of refrigeration back at your place? Do you have access to a little electricity or are you basically doing without it?

    We’re totally riveted by each piece of your adventure you share with us!

  16. Yvonne L says:

    I LOVE the kids expressions on the tuk tuk! That would make the whole trip worth it!! I am going to talk to the hubster about our own Thai adventure when he gets home… I’m so going (with or without him) ๐Ÿ™‚

  17. Betty (Miami) says:

    I came across your blog via a friend who’s in to photography & wanted to share your talent & ideas with me. But… your Thai adventure has completely captivated me in so many other ways… to dream of picking up my family & heading out to a remote temp. new home just fascinates me. Your courage & willingness is awesome. Ok – so where exactly in God’s name are you guys? Where can I find information about your home away from home if I’d ever find my courage to do it with my family? Enjoy… experience & bond! Can’t wait to hear about your next adventure!

  18. Pamela S. says:

    oh my gosh…the eggs are so funny! did you make bok choy omelets? i just wanted to say thank you again for the seminar in chicago (way back in frigid November), as i’m looking at my cute pink name tag… wondering about a joe buissink wksp in april. how can i not want to rub shoulders with such a guy???

  19. shawna says:

    that missing tooth is precious! and it’s wonderful that you’re nudging her to break personal boundaries. that’s something i never did as a kid (my brother did it all for me!) and i have trouble to this day of mustering up courage like she did. what an adventurer!

  20. Liza says:

    In the Philippines we called it a tricycle instead of a tuk-tuk! It is crazy! ๐Ÿ™‚